Intro by Skip Cohen

Wandering through Shep Hyken’s archives, I ran across this post. It couldn’t be more perfect for sharing now!

We live in a social media, email, and instant fulfillment world. Think about how many text messages and emails you receive every day. Now think about how many hand-written notes you’ve received in the last year?

Just recently on the Marathon Marketing Moment podcast, Mark Weber and I talked about hand-written thank you notes, along with your own holiday cards.  Nothing beats the appreciation level of a personal note.

Sure, texting is great, and along with email, we’re able to stay in touch with friends and associates. But if you’re looking to break through the noise and leave an impression that lasts; one that shows your appreciation, go with a hand-written thank you note – follow Shep’s advice.

“Old school ideas may have more relevance than you think!”


Copyright © MMXXI, Shep Hyken – Used with Permission

Many years ago, my daughter and I were in our basement, and she found an old typewriter. She looked at it with amazement and asked, “Dad, what’s this?” I explained it was what we used before computers and keyboards were invented. We would type letters and thank-you notes on a piece of paper, without spell-check. She asked if she could play with it. It kept her busy for days.

Years later, we occasionally reminisce about the old typewriter. Technology has evolved. We’ve gone from typewriters to computers to apps on mobile phones. I was recently answering a question from a young customer service agent. One thing I suggested was that he follow up his conversation with a customer with a thank-you note. And he did, sort of. He didn’t actually write the note. Instead, he texted the thank-you to his customer.  

Now, I wondered if the text had the same impact as an old-fashioned handwritten – or even typed – thank-you note. So, I decided to conduct an informal poll with some friends and colleagues.

The questions I asked were: 

  • Which has more impact, a handwritten note or a text? 
  • Which has more impact, a handwritten note or an email? 
  • Which has more impact, an email or a text? 

Overall, the handwritten note wins. The email was next, but I was surprised that several people would prefer a text. But it probably isn’t a surprise that those who preferred texting were in their 20s. 

This made me start thinking about how so much has changed. Old school technology, techniques, and practices have given way to a new way of doing business.

For example:  

  • We don’t, as mentioned, use typewriters anymore. We use computers and apps.  
  • While we still use calculators, they are built into our phones and computers. Who still has a calculator that … just calculates? 
  • We used to write letters that we addressed, stamped, and mailed, and while we still do, emails have taken over as the primary method for most “written” communication.  
  • And for some, texting has taken over as the main form of communication, including the phone. 

There’s nothing wrong with any of this, but let’s get back to the choice of sending your customer a handwritten thank-you note versus a short text message. I’m not against the text if it’s appropriate and done the right way. You’ll have to decide based on the relationship you have with your customer. And even if it is appropriate, what should drive your decision is what would be most impactful or meaningful.  

I tell the true story of an amazing cab driver who sent me a note to thank me for my business. I was impressed – so impressed that I framed the note and hung it on my wall. I couldn’t hang a text message on my wall.  

“Old school” ideas may have more relevance than you think.