Controlling the Noise in Our Lives

With the insanity in the world, cyberspace has become jam-packed with people exhibiting troll-like behavior. They hide behind the anonymity of their computer screens and if they’re not in your face with their information, they’re working to attack your opinion.

Years ago I wrote a post called “The Rules of Engagement.” Today, while everything I felt back then is still appropriate, the Internet, A.I. and everyone’s reach has made the rules even more basic. 

“Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet!“

Abraham Lincoln

• Learn to Use the Block Feature: The block feature on your phone, email and Facebook for example, is ideal to cut down on the noise in your life. Lately I’ve found it useful for followers who have actually become abusive in the number of times they share their opinion, or worse, they share a false story shared by somebody else or another organization.
• Telemarketing: I’m a huge fan of “NoMoRobo.” It’s dramatically cut down on telemarketing calls on our home phone and both cell phones. It’s worth considering if you’re being buried in spam calls.
• Not Every Battle is Yours: If you don’t like what somebody commented, don’t get into the battle unless what’s been said honestly has an impact on you or your business.
• Get Permission: If you’re sharing something written or an image captured by somebody else, get their permission!
• Ask for Help: Years ago I had a hater who posted a story about how he was mistreated by me and the WPPI staff at a previous convention. The story was completely false, but a good friend came to my aid and challenged him for the truth. Another party stepping in opened the door for me to comment in a way that was more positive and sounded less defensive. In addition, at the next convention he was at, I approached him face to face. He was so flustered at not being able to hide behind his computer that he faked a phone call and asked if he could get back to me!
• Fake News: This is a tough one because we all have a stake in the craziness of politics these days. I use “Snopes” a lot, and often just googling the topic will give me a broader perspective. I’m tired of reading posts that aren’t true. So, before you give in and comment, at the very least do a little research on what’s being shared. I’ve read posts by some of the most respected people in photography who share information that’s been fabricated.

Here’s the bottom line, the noise in our lives is often overwhelming. But each of us has a choice when it comes to more control over what people want to share with us. I’m not suggesting anybody give up strong opinions they believe in, or issues on either side of the battles in politics.  But if you feel like it’s getting out of control, then with just a little effort you can reduce the noise and be more selective regarding what’s being shared with you.